These are 28 of the most important things I've learned so far in my life.
Most of which I've learned the hard way.
Anything worth doing isn't easy and most things that are easy aren't worth doing
- instant gratification, cheap dopamine = no long term gain
- delayed gratification, fulfillment = long term gain
#1. Embrace failure as a stepping stone to success. πͺ
- Failure is not the opposite of success, it's part of the process.
#2. Prioritize getting enough sleep consistently, everday. π
- It will build the foundation you need to be successful in all other areas of your life.
#3. Surround yourself with people you want to be more like. π₯
- Spend your time with people who are smarter, more successful, and more driven than you are.
- You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.
#4. Finish what you start. π
- Don't let perfectionism, fear of failure, or procrastination stop you from finishing what you start.
- The two biggest obstacles are perfectionism and having unrealistic goals.
#5. Take risks and step out of your comfort zone. π
- The biggest risk is not taking any risks and choosing to stay comfortable.
- The only way to grow in life is to push yourself beyond your comfort zone.
#6. Learn from your mistakes and grow from them. π±
- Don't be afraid to make mistakes, be afraid of not learning from them.
- The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing.
- LEARN from your mistakes!
- The last time you failed, did you stop trying because you failed or did you fail because you stopped trying. -John Mason
#7. Invest in continuous learning and personal development. π
- Never think you know everything, stay humble, and be always open to learning new things.
- Embrace a growth mindset and be willing to learn from others.
- Have a curious, studen'ts mind and never stop learning.
#8. Life is short! Appreciate and live every day today. π
- Don't be stuck in the past or future.
- Practice gratitude and appreciate the little things.
- Practice mindfulness and live in the present moment.
#9. Donβt waste your life! π°οΈ
- Don't waste your life chasing things that don't matter.
- Don't waste your life on things that don't bring you joy or fulfillment.
- Don't waste your life on things that don't align with your values or purpose.
- Don't waste your life on things that don't make a positive impact on the world.
- Don't waste your life on things that don't bring you closer to God.
- Don't waste your life on things that don't bring you closer to your loved ones.
- Don't waste your life on things that don't bring you closer to your dreams.
#10. Donβt sweat the small stuff! π±
- Don't obsess over the condition of material possessions.
- Don't store up treasures on earth... - Matthew 6:19
- Don't let the little things get to you.
- Don't let the small stuff distract you from what's really important in life.
#11. Be content and grateful for what you have. π
- Don't take anything for granted.
- Practice gratitude and appreciate the blessings in your life.
#12. Donβt be self-centered. Learn to invest in and serve/love others. β€οΈ
- It is more blessed to give than to receive. - Acts 20:35
- Love your neighbor as yourself. - Matthew 22:39
- Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. - Philippians 2:3
- Love one another as I have loved you. - John 13:34
#13. Whatever you do, give it your all. π
- Work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord. - Colossians 3:23
- Do everything as if you are doing it for the Lord.
- Do everything with excellence and integrity.
- Do everything with passion and purpose.
#14. F.O.C.U.S. - Follow One Course Until Successful. π―
- Stay focused on your goals and don't get distracted by shiny objects.
- Stay committed to your vision and don't give up when things get tough.
- Stay disciplined and consistent in your efforts.
- Finish what you start and see it through to the end.
- Set clear goals and work towards achieving them.
#15. Take accountability for your actions and choices. π
- Don't blame others for your mistakes.
- Take responsibility for your actions and the consequences that follow.
- Own up to your mistakes and learn from them.
- Be honest with yourself and others.
#16. Practice patience and perseverance in difficult times. π§οΈ
- Don't give up when things get tough.
- Trust in God's timing and plan for your life.
- Be patient and wait for the right time.
- Persevere through the storms of life and come out stronger on the other side.
#17. Learn to let go of things that are beyond your control. π
- Don't sweat the small stuff.
- Learn to let go of things that are beyond your control.
#18. Enjoy the journey, not just the destination. π
- Don't rush through life and miss the beauty of the present moment.
- Enjoy the process of growth and self-discovery.
- Embrace the challenges and obstacles that come your way.
- Find joy in the journey, not just the destination.
#19. Take care of your body and mind. π§
- Exercise regularly and eat a healthy diet.
- Get enough sleep and rest.
- Practice mindfulness and meditation.
- You only have one body and mind, take care of them.
#20. Learn to manage your time effectively. β³
- Prioritize your tasks and focus on what's important.
- Set goals and create a plan to achieve them.
- Eliminate distractions and stay focused on your work.
- Use your time wisely and make the most of each day.
#21. Practice self-awareness and self-reflection. π§
- Be aware of your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors.
- Reflect on your actions and decisions.
- Determine how you can improve.
- Maximize your strengths and minimize your weaknesses.
#22. Practice forgiveness and let go of grudges. ποΈ
- Don't hold onto anger or resentment.
- Forgive those who have wronged you.
- Let go of grudges and move on with your life.
#23. Donβt stop pushing yourself. π
- Don't settle for mediocrity.
- Don't get comfortable with where you are.
- Keep pushing yourself to grow and improve.
- Keep challenging yourself to reach new heights.
#24. Dream big and take action. π
- Go after what you really want in life.
- If you can dream it, you can achieve it.
#25. Donβt be quick to judge or criticize. π€
- βWhy do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brotherβs eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?β - Matthew 7:3
#26. Accept people for who they are. π€
- Don't try to change them (only God can).
- Stop comparing yourself to them (comparison syndrome).
- God's plan is different for everyone.
#27. The only way to find true happiness is to seek God. π
- βDelight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart.β - Psalm 37:4
- βSeek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.β - Matthew 6:33
- Live for God and not for yourself.
#28. Spend time with God daily. π
- Read the Bible and pray.
- Seek His guidance and wisdom.
- Trust in His plan for your life.
- Let Him lead you in everything you do.
- Seek to know Him more and more each day.
29. Bonus: Don't take life too seriously. π€ͺ
- Life is short, enjoy it while you can.
- Laugh often and don't sweat the small stuff.
- Don't take yourself too seriously.
- Have fun and enjoy the journey.